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Monday, June 7, 2021

Explore Your True Happiness as the Ultimate Goal of Life

Your Happiness is Your Own Responsibility

Explore Your True Happiness


Everyone yearns for true happiness and makes persistent efforts to feel it and live in the happiest state of their heart and soul but only a few can achieve the true, inner happiness in their life. To explore your true happiness as the ultimate goal of life, let’s read this story and understand it in a deeper sense:

Once a young man was curious to know the meaning of happiness and how to attain true happiness amidst all chaos of a mundane life so he went in search of a wise man whom he believed could answer his question and show him the right path. After meandering through hills, valleys and forests he finally reached a castle on the top of a mountain where the wise man was said to reside.

When the young man entered into the castle he was astounded to see it filled with activities and clamour of people from all walks of life who also came to ask their queries and the wise man was responding to each one of them with calm and patience. The young man, very eager for his curiosity to be unraveled, approached him and asked his question, to which the wise man replied that he hadn’t enough time to reply at that moment so he should have a look around his castle and admire the magnificence and uniqueness of his world and should return in two hours. The wise man also assigned him a task. He gave him a spoon with two drops of oil in it and said that when he observed the beauty of the castle the drops of oil shouldn’t spill.

The young man started visiting the castle keeping his eyes fixed on the spoon and after two hours he returned to the hall where the wise man was sitting. The wise man asked him about the murals hanging in the dining hall but the young man was embarrassed and spoke in a sombre voice that he couldn’t observe anything as his eyes were fixed on the spoon and his only concern was not to spill the oil. “You should go back and appreciate the marvels of my palace,” said the wise man. The young man again went to observe the castle but this time without paying heed to the oil drops in the spoon and returned with the minutest details of the castle and eagerness to describe that. “But where are the drops of oil I entrusted to you?” asked the wise man.

When the young man saw the spoon, there was no oil. “I hope you must have understood what I wanted to say. True happiness lies in enjoying the marvels of the world without allowing the drops of oil spill from the spoon.

 The message, this story conveys is: One has a right to enjoy the grandeur and pleasures of the world but should never forget his duties and responsibilities to his very existence. Everyone needs to strike a perfect balance between work, family, health and social and environmental responsibilities. If one tries to escape from any of these responsibilities or is not able to fulfill any of them he/she starts losing on this creative process of our emotional health which becomes a major deterrent in people seeking true happiness. Often people get themselves mired in a web of expectations that circumscribe the extent of their knowledge about true happiness.


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Self-Awareness & Self- Belief

It’s very important to know and connect with the Self which is not possible without an effective self-communion. Everyone has a different taste for happiness so one can never say that the other is happy or sad. Many are happy with an ordinary life with their minimal resources while others keep cultivating the habit of pitching in their relentless efforts to excel. An excellent cannot undermine an ordinary one and vice versa. Know Thyself so as to have the gumption to decide upon your parameters for being happy. The way we think about our Self, we start believing the same for our existence and create an image for ourselves; this Self-image gambles with our emotions so keep changing (just like your WhatsApp DP) and enhancing it. There’s no such thing called ‘external validation’ so do what you like to make yourself happy as money and profit are not the only measure of your success and happiness; it will surely teach you to feel better about yourself.

The Theory of  LESS & MORE

Express less, expect less but explore more and experience more. This easy rule helps find true happiness as we need not search our happiness; it lies within; within the very core and when we limit our expressions and expectations we conquer our grudges and malice which are the root cause of sorrow. Exploring our inner self and experiencing the clarity of emotions generate a different kind of joy which is beyond any ecstasy of material gains in life. Ruminating about the mistakes done in past encourages self-judgment and does nothing good in future too, so stop the tendency to question your self- sufficiency and self-efficacy. When you explore the values which take precedence over everything in your life you are in a better position to define and determine your true happiness.

Liberate Yourself from the Clutches of Desires & Attachments:

 Let’s ponder over the last words of Alexander, “I wish the path leading to my graveyard should be strewn with all the gold, silver, gems and precious stones which I have earned in my lifetime. Let the spectators know that despite spending all my life conquering the riches and lands of the world, not even a grain of gold will be there with me when I leave the world. Let the people understand that it’s a sheer waste of time, energy and peace of mind when one yearns to be rich.”

Desires fill us with a sense of emptiness; the emptiness of not having something and we begin to feel unhappy and dissatisfied. Desires make us demanding and lead us into attachments. When one is achieved, our mind starts yearning for the other because desire is the mind’s tendency to always be in this state. They never let the mind be at peace and deprive you from your inner happiness. A life of GRATITUDE and contentment is the happiest state and helps us eliminate our desires and attachments.

Imagine Your Happiness

There shouldn’t always be a logical reason behind your act; it can simply be done because you want to do it and it’s fun; it makes you happy. You can imagine happiness, create it and live it and be your own ‘happiness expert’. Imagine your happiness and train your brain to stay happy , remove ‘NO’ from your thoughts and imaginations and work on programming the process of becoming happier with each passing day. Some scientific studies suggest that human imaginations have the power of great transformations if trained well as they create mind environments. We are even wired for it; when we imagine we become more creative and that benefit both body and mind.

 

Your Happiness is your own Responsibility

Happiness can’t be encapsulated in a formula neither be attained through the theory of one-size-fits-all for everyone. But the fact that works for all is; it can be experienced in savouring the moment, when human mind savours something; it is completely engrossed in it and appreciative of the experience. True happiness can be felt in sunshine, in the flowing water, in the air we breathe, on the smiling faces, in a child’s innocence, in extending a helping hand to the unfortunate ones and happiness can be experienced in just being alive at this moment and being hopeful to see one more sunrise of your life.

Swami Rama Teertha once said, “Your only duty is to be happy”. It’s all up to you how do you find your true happiness.

 

So, Make Your Effort. Go, Grab it!

19 comments:

  1. Well explained. Apt selection of stories. Happiness is our mindset only thing required is to experience Happiness

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  2. An interesting article and it explain about happiness very well .Happiness can be experienced in saviuring the momentπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘

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  3. Greetings !
    Ma'am your blogs are amazing ! This took my heart sway seriously ! Happiness been described in short ! πŸ˜‡❤️

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  4. Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort. - ...

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  5. Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort. - ...Lata jani

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  6. power of concentration, compounding knowledge, avoiding distractions.
    That's the secret behind his happiness.

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    1. Thanks a lot dear Reader for your beautiful words.

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  7. Your wonderful blog reminded me of a book- "A Little book of happiness" by Ruskin Bond. Your deep perception of human life and happiness is really commendable. I wonder that such deep thinking ideas come to you at such a younger age that many people does not understand at their advanced stage of life. God has bestowed you with a sharp intelligence and understanding of various facets of human life. This article is indeed a path finder who wants to peursue happiness. Each article written by you is a good piace of literature. My blessings to you with the expectation that you would continue with such useful articles, which, one day, would certainly come in a book form.

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    1. Can't express my gratitude in words for having received such motivation and blessings! Thank you so much sir.

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  8. How beautifully and keenly you observe life!!Only a person who enjoys such happiness inside can write like this,I think.Your writing reflects ages of experience and wisdom Keep writing like this Rachna.Sorry for the late comments.

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